INSECURITY

no.. this entry isn't about me.. although i have to admit that insecurity is something i struggle with every now and then... that's besides the point.. THIS entry.. is abt someone i've known for a pretty long time... someone who hasn't changed or grown or matured in any way recommended... this person. is insecurity personified.

how do you tell if someone's insecure? the basis of my perception is vital to whatever follows.. because if i get my definition wrong, my entire case will be horseshit.

so. i say this person is insecurity in human form because!
1. shim hardly ever says anything nice about anything good that happens to OTHER people.
no.. " congratulations!" no... " OOh! that's nice! " no.. " eh.. wa lao.. so lucky!" ... zilch.
2. shim also trivializes the success of others and tries to drown the positivity of the entire situation with shim's own personal experience and standing.
" what's the big deal... last time i also... blah blah blah BULLSHIT!"
3. NOTHING is ever a big deal with this person because shim's ALWAYS have had SOMETHING better happen to shim..
" chey.... like that only.. i thought what..... "
4. and even IF it's a big enough deal... shim will say that it's happened to EVERYONE ELSE ... so it really isn't THAT good a deal.
"... oh you have that? .. my friend also has that .. like from SOoOO long ago. NOW then you have?? .... "
last of ALL...
5. shim talks big 98% of the time
" i'm gonna be SOoOO rich one day... " <-- tsk. seriously? you think so? cos i don't think so. seriously.

eve... you know who i'm talking abt ... tsk.

any resemblance to anybody living or dead is purely coincidence. .. or something like that

go AWAY lah.