Monday, January 22, 2007

New Yr Resos - better late than never

there are a few things I wanna get done this yr.. or at least start trying to cultivate the habit of doing...

1. Read more.
brutal honesty would reveal that my general knowledge is pretty much close to being non-existent... hence, the need to read... read ..and READ...

2. Prioritize
no explanation needed.
studies first... ... play second... ... and third... ... and fourth..and fifth... and sixth... and seventh and... .. eighth and Nineth.. .. . and tenth... ...

3. Practise proper financial and time management
no explanation needed either- I spend too much money in too little time.

4. Love
my family
my friends
him.

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I think EVERY couple should try to make it as difficult for them to break up as possible...
I have THUS, planned a little plan to better facilitate this.

a. Introduce him to ALL your friends and tell them what an EXCELLENT person he is.
- of cos, this will have to based on facts and actual experiences.
- and of cos, adrian IS an excellent person... (and so....the ploy begins.... )
because if your friends think or PERCEIVE him to be this nice guy you should hold on to... they will be that source of encouragement and strength to stay by him when you feel like giving up.

b. Introduce him to ALL your relatives
- relatives exPECT you to find a guy and MARRY the first guy you bring to them. HENCE! such an introduction will only force you to reconsider break ups... because.. AWww... You would HATE to have them ask you abt ex-es.

c. Meet HIS family and get to know THEM
- as SITC once sited, when you break up with someone, you break up with his family. L's mum was one reason why I held on and worked harder for our rs... which clearly wasn't heading anywhere BUT the gutters... POINT PROVEN.

the above may seem... silly and inconsequential...
but every obstacle to breaking up might just cause you to put that bit more thought into your rs.. hence... probably saving what you've possibly been wanting all your life...

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